A Guide Based on ICS and Other International School Practices
When preparing to send your child to an international school in Paris — such as ICS, EIB, or Marymount — many parents wonder:
“Up to which grade do I need to accompany my child to and from school?”
Having gone through this myself, here’s what I’ve learned based on experience and school policies.
1. ICS Paris Policy: Grade 6 and Below
At ICS Paris, the guidelines are clear:
- Up to Grade 6:
Students must be accompanied by a parent, guardian, or designated adult at both drop-off and pick-up. This is a safety measure and applies even if the student is mature enough to manage on their own. - From Grade 7 and above:
Students are allowed to commute independently, provided a parent or guardian has submitted written consent to the school.
Many students at this level use public transportation or walk to school on their own.
This policy helps the school maintain accountability and ensures student safety during arrival and dismissal.
2. General Practices at Other International Schools in Paris
Although each school has its own policy, most follow a similar structure:
- Kindergarten to Grade 3:
Students are expected to be accompanied to the classroom or designated drop-off point. Pickup also requires a guardian. - Grade 4 to Grade 6:
Some schools may begin allowing more independence, but many still require a listed adult for pickup unless written authorization is provided. - Grade 7 and above:
Independent commuting is generally accepted. Most schools request that parents complete a student autonomy form before allowing this.
Always check your specific school’s arrival and dismissal policy, as they may require updates each academic year.
3. If You’re Unable to Accompany Your Child
There are several reliable options that international families in Paris commonly use:
- Nannies or caregivers (nounous):
Many families hire part-time help to assist with morning drop-offs or afternoon pickups. - School-provided transportation:
Some schools offer bus services, either directly or through third-party providers. - Parent-sharing groups:
Expat parent communities often organize drop-off rotations or carpool groups. - Written permissions:
If someone else (friend, relative, babysitter) is picking up your child, be sure to inform the school in writing.
4. Helping Your Child Transition to Independent Commuting
Even once your child reaches Grade 7 or above, independence takes adjustment. Here are some tips:
- Walk or ride the route with them several times before their first solo trip
- Equip them with a small contact card (your phone number and home address)
- Discuss what to do in case of delays or emergencies
- Keep a simple check-in system, like a text message upon arrival
At ICS Paris, Grade 6 is the final grade requiring adult accompaniment for daily school travel.
From Grade 7, students are permitted to commute independently, assuming consent is in place.
This structure is similar across many international schools in Paris.
The key is to assess both your child’s maturity and your comfort level as a parent — and to know that support is available in the community when needed.